A WAY FOR OUR FAMILY TO GIVE SOMETHING BACK IN HONOR OF OUR SON THAT DIED FROM SIDS. I HOPE THIS BEAR CAN REPRESENT SOMETHING SPECIAL TO OTHER FAMILIES THAT ARE UNFORTUNATE TO EXPERIENCE THE LOSS OF A CHILD/BABY.

We reached and exceeded our goal and donated close to 200 Bears on April 7, 2012. Thank you so much for donations.

We have decided to continue with our Beckett Bear Foundation and our next delivery date is August 9, 2012. The day that our son died. We are planning on collecting until then. Our goal is 100 Bears - to be delivered to Avista Hospital in Louisville, CO.

Website

This is the BEST quality and perfect SIZE bear if you would rather order the bears and have them shipped to our P.O. Box address listed on the blog:

http://www.msteddybear.us/teddybear16to19.html

Thanks SO much!!

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Update!!

We officially have a total of 118 BEARS in hand!!  Can I so OMGosh!!!  I am so excited that people want to participate and help us out.  Avista Hospital is SO very excited to be receving these bears.  They aren't receiving them from ANYONE anymore and have been OUT for the past 3 months.

This is just AMAZING!!  :)

Monday, January 2, 2012

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Beckett Bears

Jed and I have talked...a lot, about what to do in honor of our son.  Our Angel Baby: 

Beckett Donald was born April 7, 2010 5 weeks early due to placenta aburption.  He stayed 2 weeks in the NICU and came home as a happy, healthy baby boy.  We were so excited to start our new adventure with our 5th child, 2nd boy!  Beckett's siblings took care of him like a precious piece of gold...he was fought over endlessly. 

At 4 months and 2 days old, I laid Beckett down to sleep for a nap and checked on him 15 minutes later to find him lifeless and blue.  Grabbing him I ran to my neighbors house who immediately began CPR.  After the EMTs transferred him to our local hospital, I was told that they could not resuscitate.  In those minutes my whole life changed...I changed.  I lost a HUGE piece of my heart.

At the hospital, after holding my precious baby in my arms for hours, the hospital provided me with a Teddy Bear, blanket, grieving information, etc. and at first...I didn't want it.  I remember wanting to throw it across the room...I wanted my baby, alive.  To this day...that bear sits on my dresser - wearing Beckett's hat - and he is my favorite decorative piece in my bedroom.  I look at him daily...he reminds me of my sweet baby.  Although, he may represent that day but I tend to look at him as a symbol of my child - something I can hold, squeeze and love. 

I would like to provide these Bears for those families that have found themselves in this horrible situation.  Something that they can cling to...hold onto when their own world is falling apart.  

I am setting up a donation of either BEARS or MONEY (to buy Teddy Bears) to donate to Avista Hospital in Louisville, Colorado.

My kid's are SO excited to be apart of this donation and have already each picked out a Bear to donate.  Our first goal is to donate 50 bears on BECKETT'S 2nd Birthday - April 7, 2012.  Please help us meet our goal!!   Of course we will need help putting our tag on each bear SO we will be having a TAGGING party the end of March - information to be released as date get closer...thanks for everyone's support!!

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Risk Reduction

• BACK TO SLEEP:
Always place healthy babies on their backs for rest, sleep or when left alone. Placing babies on their backs to sleep for nighttime and naptime, is the single most important step that parents and other caregivers can take to reduce the risk of SIDS. Babies placed on their stomach to sleep, who normally sleep on their backs, are at a significantly greater risk for SIDS. Back to sleep must be used every time with no exceptions.

• FIRM SLEEP SURFACE:
Place your baby in a safety approved crib with a firm mattress covered by a fitted sheet. Never place your baby to sleep on pillows, quilts, sheepskins, or other soft surfaces. Studies have found that sleeping on soft surfaces, such as couches and soft mattresses, is a significant SIDS risk factor.

• SAFE SLEEP ENVIRONMENT:
Keep pillows, blankets, quilts, sheepskins, stuffed toys, crib bumpers and other soft objects out of your baby's sleep area.

• NO SMOKING:
Do not allow smoking around your baby. Don't smoke before or after the birth of your baby. Avoiding an infant's exposure to second-hand smoke is advisable for numerous other health reasons in addition to the increased risk of SIDS.

• CLEAN, DRY PACIFIER:
Consider offering a clean, dry pacifier at naptime and bed time. Do not force an infant to use a pacifier. Do not reinsert pacifier once it fall out. For breastfed babies, the pacifier should be delayed one month to ensure breastfeeding is firmly established.

• DO NOT OVERHEAT:
The infant should be lightly clothed for sleep, and the bedroom temperature should be kept comfortable for a lightly clothed adult. Over bundling should be avoided, and the infant should not feel hot to the touch.

• AVOID COMMERCIAL DEVICES MARKETED TO REDUCE THE RISK OF SIDS:
Although various devices have been developed to maintain sleep position or reduce the risk of re-breathing, none have been tested sufficiently to show efficacy or safety.

• DO NOT USE HOME MONITORS AS A STARTEGY TO REDUCE THE RISK OF SIDS:
Electronic respiratory and cardiac monitors are available to detect cardio respiratory arrest and may be of value for home monitoring of selected infants who are deemed to have extreme cardio respiratory instability. However, there is no evidence that use of such home monitors decreases the incidence of SIDS. Furthermore, there is no evidence that infants at increased risk of SIDS can be identified by in-hospital respiratory or cardiac monitoring.

• PROVIDE TUMMY TIME:
"tummy time."" when your baby is awake and someone is watching. Change the direction that your baby lies in the crib from one week to the next. Avoid too much time in car seats, carriers, and bouncers. Tummy time also enhances motor development, head control and upper body strength.

• GOOD HEALTH CARE:
Good care starts before the pregnancy and continues throughout the pregnancy. Preconception care, prenatal care and postnatal care are important. A healthy mother is more likely to have a healthy baby. Mothers should not smoke, use drugs, or drink alcohol while pregnant.